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February 2015—Several weeks ago, I gave a talk to parents of obese children on how to live a healthy lifestyle. Approximately 25 minutes into the talk a sweet 3-year-old girl with medium-brown hair in pigtails quietly walked into the room and took a seat next to her mother. Moments prior to her entrance, I had presented the following question to the parents: \u201cWhat kinds of things do you do to relax when you feel stressed?\u201d The audience avoided eye contact with me, looked around the room and pretended that they needed to check their Blackberrys at that exact moment all in effort to avoid answering my question.<\/p>\n
I decided to ask the question again\u2026silence.<\/p>\n
As I continued to survey the room, my eyes slowly met with those of the 3-year-old girl. I looked at this little girl in pigtails and asked for her name\u2026\u201cLyla,\u201d she answered shyly. I proceeded to ask Lyla if she ever feels stressed? She looked directly at me with bright brown eyes and answered my question with ease\u2026 \u201cDefinitely!\u201d she proclaimed. It took me a moment to grasp my head around the fact that someone so young could even begin to understand what it meant to feel stressed.<\/p>\n
I then asked Lyla the same question that I asked the parents moments prior to Lyla\u2019s seemingly inconspicuous entrance\u2026\u201cWhat kind of things to you like to do when you feel stressed,\u201d I asked. Without hesitation, Lyla quickly, with a matter-of-fact tone answered, \u201cI just put on my pink dress.\u201d So simple. Just to clarify, I asked \u201cSo all you need to do when you feel stress is put on your pink dress and all of your stress melts away?\u201d She answered softly, yet with genuine confidence, \u201cYeah, I just put on my pink dress.\u201d<\/p>\n
This innocent exchange got me thinking\u2026where is my pink dress? Perhaps, finding a reliable way to relax is easier than we think. Maybe we are trying too hard to relax. When Lyla talked about her pink dress, she breathed diaphragmatically without intention. It appeared that even thinking about this dress served to naturally induce a relaxation response for this little girl.<\/p>\n
To be clear, I am not suggesting that you (regardless of gender) go out and buy a pink dress. What I do suggest is to take about 10 minutes to sit down and think about an item or activity that you find relaxing. Think about your senses: whether it\u2019s wrapping yourself up in a warm fuzzy blanket, spritzing on your favorite perfume or cologne so you can smell it throughout the day, listening to a song that you find soothing, taking a sip of hot or iced tea, petting your dog or cat, holding a memento (i.e., a favorite photo, a sentimental object), notice how both your mind and body feel as you engage in any of the above-noted activities.<\/p>\n
As I have mentioned in previous articles, the more our society increases its desired, unrealistically fast pace, the more important it becomes for you to take a moment and breathe. The items and activities mentioned above oftentimes serve as \u201ctriggers.\u201d Implementing a simple, yet meaningful object or activity into your daily routine may serve to naturally induce a relaxation response with little to no effort.<\/p>\n
Have a great month & as always don\u2019t forget to breathe!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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